Marriage
Couples getting married before 1664 were married by banns. This meant that that a public declaration (banns) was made in the church. This was done three times and then, if no one voiced any objections, the marriage could proceed. After 1664, a couple had an option as to how they married: they could marry by banns or by obtaining a license to marry. After the wedding, the wife typically kept her maiden name, instead of adopting her husband's name. Marriage records often gave the following information: bride and groom's name, where they came from, and their marital status (such as, unmarried or widow), the marriage date and/or date the banns were read. Men who had never married before were recorded as "j.m" or "y.m." ("jonge man", meaning "young man") and women in the same situation were recorded as "j.d" or "y.d" ("jonge dochter", meaning "young daughter"). This did not neccessarily mean that they were young, only that they had never married before.
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